Have you ever wondered what goes through a females mind when a guy ‘toasts’ her? Well, I know you men will say “She was just checking out my ride, perfume, watch or my handsome face.” That’s usually not the case. Hello Gentlemen!!! Let’s make provision for her mental state
Let’s analyse the girl who is out on a ‘girl’s night’ with her friends. She is relaxed and has a lot of spare time. She is more likely to notice your appearance. Can you blame her ?Who would want to be embarrassed before her friends? So guys, if you are on the prowl at a wedding ceremony, bar or a club, you have to ‘represent.’
Next is the busy bee girl. She is at work or late for an appointment. She is so behind on her schedule that her body language screams ‘If only I could turn back the hands of time’ my advice, don’t speak to her except you are able to solve her problem. You are most likely going to receive an unfavourable response.
Let’s introduce the ‘default mode’ lady. This female is just going through her regular routine. She is neither angry or sad, behind schedule or free. This is where your long practiced Nollywood skills might help you. You have to catch her interest and keep it. The first thought on her mind when you say hello is ‘what does he want?’ So forget the outwards smiles and the friendly exterior. You have just been granted 3 minutes to sell yourself. So make every second count.